Catholic
Roman Catholic
Marriage is a covenant between a baptized man and woman, raised by Christ to the dignity of a sacrament, ordered to the good of the spouses and the procreation of children.
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Marriage
A covenant, a sacrament, a mystery — compare how six traditions define marriage, its purpose, and its permanence.
Key versesGenesis 2:24Malachi 2:14-16Matthew 19:3-9Mark 10:6-91 Corinthians 7:2-7Ephesians 5:25-33Hebrews 13:41 Timothy 3:2Song of Solomon 8:6-7
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Marriage is one of the most universally honored institutions in Christianity, and churches describe its nature and purpose in different terms. Some call it a sacrament through which God gives grace to the couple; others a divine ordinance or a sacred covenant. All six traditions affirm lifelong fidelity within marriage as each defines it, while differing on whether marriage is a sacrament, how indissoluble it is, and what ends it serves.
Content review notice: Initial release — under theological review. Positions summarize official denominational sources; named reviewers from each tradition are being onboarded.
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Every Christian tradition honors marriage as a lifelong union ordered toward love, faithfulness, and family — but they describe what marriage is differently. Catholics and Orthodox call it a sacrament (a "holy mystery") between husband and wife through which God gives grace to the couple. Lutherans call it a divine estate and ordinance — holy and blessed, but not a sacrament in the strict sense. Reformed, Baptist, and Methodist churches call it a covenant or ordinance: sacred, binding, and blessed by God, but not a channel of saving grace. (The United Methodist Church's 2024 Discipline defines marriage as between "two adult persons of consenting age.") They also differ on divorce and remarriage: Catholics teach marriage is absolutely indissoluble; the Orthodox permit remarriage in some cases by pastoral mercy; most Protestants allow divorce for adultery or desertion.
At a glance
Six traditions, one line each
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| Tradition | In one line |
|---|---|
| Catholic | Marriage is a covenant between a baptized man and woman, raised by Christ to the dignity of a sacrament, ordered to the good of the spouses and the procreation of children. |
| Orthodox | Marriage is a Holy Mystery — the Mystery of Crowning — in which husband and wife are joined by God for their mutual salvation. |
| Lutheran | Marriage is a divine estate and ordinance instituted by God in creation — holy and honorable, but not a sacrament in the strict sense. |
| Reformed | Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman, instituted for mutual help, godly offspring, and the preventing of uncleanness. |
| Baptist | Marriage is the uniting of one man and one woman in covenant commitment for a lifetime, picturing Christ and His church. |
| Methodist | Christian marriage is not a sacrament but a sacred, lifelong covenant reflecting Christ’s covenant with the church. |
Orthodox
Eastern Orthodox
Marriage is a Holy Mystery — the Mystery of Crowning — in which husband and wife are joined by God for their mutual salvation.
Lutheran
Lutheran
Marriage is a divine estate and ordinance instituted by God in creation — holy and honorable, but not a sacrament in the strict sense.
Reformed
Reformed
Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman, instituted for mutual help, godly offspring, and the preventing of uncleanness.
Baptist
Baptist
Marriage is the uniting of one man and one woman in covenant commitment for a lifetime, picturing Christ and His church.
Methodist
United Methodist
Christian marriage is not a sacrament but a sacred, lifelong covenant reflecting Christ’s covenant with the church.
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